Date: 2018-01-06 23:33
She tries to talk to her husband about, but he doesn 8767 t understand. Maybe all he hears is that he isn 8767 t enough for her anymore. Maybe all he hears is she 8767 s having some kind of midlife crisis. Maybe he can 8767 t comprehend polyamory or doesn 8767 t understand why after so many years together she suddenly unhappy with him. He doesn 8767 hear HER, he hears what he expects t hear. What he wants to hear. He hears this is something she is choosing because if it is something that she is choosing than she can change her mind and this nightmare can end, and everything can go back the way it was.
The average woman who has managed to get and keep ONE man is perfectly happy to quit while they 8767 re ahead. Childless 75-somethings aside, I think normal people after a certain age really crave stability, kids, and a person who thinks they 8767 re attractive in their sweats. If they want an 8775 open marriage, 8776 it 8767 s so they can step out a few times a year, maybe. But I think most people don 8767 t really even want that.
The work needed is usually in the area of developing a better tolerance for love and intimacy by clearing out whatever fears and blocks the guy has in the way. Then he can go after a whole and available single woman.
POLYUNSATURATED: Colloquial Polyamorous , and currently seeking or open to new partners. Contrast polysaturated. Usage: Often considered humorous or slightly silly. Seems to be most common primarily in the western United States.
That is a very different situation though. The islamic world is explicitly polygamous. It 8767 s not ok for a woman to have more than one romantic or sexual partner. (And often harshly punished.)
8 teen children is QUITE a baggage. I know you love them, but still, they are a lot of baggage for a new person to take on.
I am about 5 months out of this situation there is not a day that goes by I don 8767 t think of her and I still 8775 love 8776 her (BTW I put love in quotes because ultimately this is not what love is supposed to be its infatuation or lust but really its not love ) NONE if the great stuff was worth it I wasted my time with this cheating loser thinking it would lead somewhere while I could have been spending 5 years building something real with a single woman
If you're wondering why the online dating game isn't working for you, you only need to look at the horrific mess of a comment you just posted.
Love is not about possession it 8767 s all about appreciation. Appreciate what you have, remember the days when you don 8767 t have.